Amber is one of those free-spirited
people who takes even incredible hardships and turns them into adventures,
inspiring others in the process. When her young family wound up homeless,
through no fault of their own, she and her husband Krishna Mehta made the best
of it. Their children didn’t even know that they were homeless; they thought
that they were having great adventures and making lots of friends.
This latest chapter in
their saga, however, is a nightmare, and the rainbow is really hard to find
in the storm that Child Protective Services has allegedly brought into their
lives. Their children, ages 6, almost 2, and 9 months, have been seized by CPS and placed into 3 different foster
homes. The two babies were still being breastfed. Social services has gone so
far as to accuse Amber of having a mental disorder because she is
“homeless.”
Their homelessness was not
by choice. Last spring the family was living in a small town in Missouri.
Krishna was working, and Amber was a stay-at-home mom and childbirth doula.
They were expecting baby Mira to make her appearance soon by mid-summer.
Emergency Trip to Oregon for Dying Mother
Then, they got a call that
changed everything. Krishna’s mother’s cancer had come back with a vengeance.
The doctors gave her just weeks to live. Krishna, a dual Irish-American citizen,
and Amber scrambled to pull resources together to get to Oregon, hoping to
see her before she died, and let her see the children. They drove
cross-country, but arrived too late. She was gone.
The plan had been to stay at
her house, have an unassisted homebirth, or “freebirth” in Oregon, and go
back to the midwest when they got back on their feet. But life didn’t work out
that way. Mira was born peacefully at the end of July, at home with her family.
But shortly after that, they found themselves with no place to live.
Making the Best of a Tough Situation
They sank what money they
had left into an RV and made the best
of their situation. Amber says:
“We faced homelessness
with all the courage and hope we could, believing that we were strong enough
to make it.”
Winter was coming on fast,
and it was expected to be a cold one. An RV
in Oregon was no place to live. They headed south, stopping in various
places, “helping others where we could,” says Amber, “which is more often
than one might think, considering all it often takes to HELP
someone is to CARE.”
Slab City
About the same time that the
medical kidnapping story of Erica May and Cleave Rengo’s home-birthed,
breastfed babies went viral (original story here), at Thanksgiving 2014, the Mehta’s
began having troubles of their own in LA
– mechanical troubles. They had heard of “Slab City,” billed both as one of
the largest “homeless encampments” in the country, and a “free RV oasis” in the California desert. Though
they were hesitant to take their family, they were at a point where they
didn’t really know what else to do. When they received a warm invitation from
a friend who was a full-time “Slabber,” they accepted. They were pleasantly
surprised to be welcomed into a community of support, which included other
families with children.
According to an article
about Slab City in the LA Times, ” this unlikely community
appears to be growing, perhaps because of the troubled economy.”
While the Mehtas lived in
their RV, they shared resources and meals with
others in the community, and fell into a routine as they decided to basically
stay put for the winter. They sometimes ventured into larger cities nearby
in the effort to make money.
Amber reports that she was
just beginning to feel that they would get ahead, and had even posted such on
her Facebook page, when the storm clouds came rolling in again, and CPS entered their lives.
Storm Clouds Roll In
They had enjoyed lunch
together at Doc’s missionary camp, a place where “Doc” fed anyone who was
hungry. It was January 31, 2015. The babies were getting cranky in the
afternoon, so Krishna offered to take Tara (20 months old) for a ride in the RV to help her go to sleep, something the parents
have found effective in the past. Meanwhile, Amber nursed the baby to sleep
as she hung out by the hot springs, while watching Sage play with friends.
As the afternoon wore on,
Krishna didn’t come back, and Amber became concerned. By dusk, when he still
wasn’t back, she got a friend to take her into town to see if, perhaps,
Krishna had a flat tire or something. By the time she got back with no word on
their whereabouts, Slab residents told her that the police had come by looking
for her. They said that her husband had been arrested and that Imperial
County CPS had Tara.
Her mind reeled, trying to
figure out what possibly could have happened. She called CPS,
who told her they were sending police officers to check on her and the kids,
and that they needed to find “suitable” shelter for the night, i.e. a hotel,
and they would meet with her in the morning.
Officers came, and were satisfied
that the children were safe. The RV had been
impounded, with the keys to the minivan inside, along with Amber’s purse. Slabbers
got together money for a hotel room for Amber for the night.
Tara did, indeed, fall
asleep in her car seat earlier that afternoon. Krishna decided to park the RV at a Circle K, and use the time to ask
passersby for help with money. Police arrived, and they searched the RV.
Police told her the next day
that he had been charged with driving drunk, having an open container, marijuana
possession, and child endangerment. Amber was questioned repeatedly. She
says that they told her they would get the RV
out of impound and give her Tara back if she would submit to a drug test. She
reports that she had no problem submitting to such, as she doesn’t
use drugs.
“It wasn’t until his
release that we realized they had lied to me in an effort to get me to admit
incriminating details, because they didn’t actually have enough evidence
to hold our daughter at all.”
During the course of the 2
day interrogation, CPS called the police
to pick up the other two children, without a warrant and without cause.
Krishna was released after being held for 72 hours, with no charges
being filed.
Krishna is diabetic. He was
taken to a hospital for blood work after his arrest, and the tests reportedly
showed no blood alcohol content, but very high blood sugar. Both hypo and
hyperglycemia of diabetes can mimic drunkenness. The “open container” was
found in the recycling bags, which Krishna says were torn open as officers
searched the RV.
Police accused Krishna of
child endangerment for not having Tara in a car seat. However, there are
reportedly photos of her buckled in the car seat during the search. When
Amber later retrieved the RV from
impound, the car seat was still snugly buckled into the ransacked vehicle.
Due to a serious back
injury some time ago, Krishna was issued a medical marijuana card in Oregon
for “severe pain related to steel rods improperly placed in his fused spine,”
so though he did use the drug occasionally, he was not actually charged.
Judge Orders Children Returned
Three days after CPS took Tara, there was a detention hearing.
CPS reportedly told the judge that they
had been unable to ascertain the safety of their camp, even though Amber says
that she invited them to check it out. The judge found no grounds for the children
being held, allegedly saying that Tara should have been returned the moment
that her mother was found safely with the other children. CPS
was ordered to provide services for the family, and Krishna was ordered to
drug test and enter treatment.
Nightmare Was Only Just Beginning
The social worker Noemi
Silva took Sage in a police car with Officer Vela back to Slab City, because
the family van was one car seat short (it was still in the impounded RV). However, they made a stop by the local
sheriff’s office first and picked up a couple more officers. Officer Vela
reportedly told the Mehtas to head on to Slab City, saying, “No place for a child, and I’ll see
to it.”
As they arrived at the site,
Amber called Sage to her, and headed over to Doc’s missionary camp for dinner.
The police told her that they had to inspect the site, and she asked if she was
being detained. She kept walking toward the campfire, and a woman there
told her, “They are
going to take your kids. Amber … RUN!”
The terrified mother realized
that she was right and handed a baby to each of two friends, and grabbed Sage’s
hand. They fled into the night desert, searching for a place to hide. More
police arrived, and they ran deeper into the desert, as her mind flashed to a
scene in a book where a holocaust survivor was running for her life to hide
from the Nazis. “I
couldn’t believe this was happening to me, to my children, to my family, to
AMERICANS!”
They eventually found
refuge in an old military bunker where a kind couple took them in for the
night. And they wondered what happened to Krishna, whom Amber had last seen
arguing with the police. She later learned that he had been arrested.
“The video on the
cellphone showed that [their friend] Prax had been attacked, sat upon, choked
and tased, simply for voicing his opinion that it was wrong what they were
doing to my family.”
She later received a phone
call to come pick up Krishna from the hospital. She found him walking back
toward Slab City. The terrified and devastated family decided right then
to load their family up and head to Arizona, “the closest state away from HERE!” They drove all night and through the
next day.
The next day, they contacted
their public defender, because they didn’t want CPS
to do something “crazy,” like putting an Amber alert out on them for “kidnapping”
their own children. He told them that there was going to be a hearing in a
little bit, without them if they weren’t there. They told him how frightened
they were, but they didn’t have time to get to court for the hearing. Over the
next week they tried every day to get back in touch with the lawyer, but it was
a month before they heard from him.
They decided that Colorado
was the best place for them to go next, because they had a friend who had
offered them a guest house behind her home. Arrangements were made, and the RV and the rest of their belongings were recovered.
They called the local CPS and Imperial
County CPS, trying to settle things and letting
them know that they had found shelter that the agency should approve of.
And for a while, it looked
like things were going to be all right. Krishna got his Colorado drivers’
license, and the family began to settle in.
“It all came crashing
down on the morning that we had an appointment to get food stamps and medical
for our family. A social worker came knocking along with a police officer,
and had warrants to ARREST our
children.”
CPS
flew the children back to Imperial County, California, on an airplane,
and Amber followed on the ground. Krishna stayed behind to work to get a home
and things set up for his family. Amber was very concerned for his health,
and she had to go fight for their children.
Less than 24 hours after
Amber left, she received an urgent call that Krishna had been found at the bottom
of the stairs, “not making any sense.” His blood sugar had plummeted and he
had fallen down the stairs, breaking a vertebrae in his neck. Blood was pooling
in his brain. He has somewhat recovered now, but their family is still
in great turmoil.
Children in Foster Care, Separated from Each Other
The children have been
placed into 3 different homes. Amber is allowed to visit them 3 times a week
for an hour each visit, but she has been forced to stop breastfeeding,
because she has been accused of having a positive drug test. She reports
that the hair follicle test shows 18 picograms (0.018 nanograms) for marijuana.
This tiny amount, she says, is from the second-hand smoke from her husband’s
medical marijuana use. (Note: most drug tests only report positive if it
is at least 50 nanograms for marijuana).
Amber has been ordered to
undergo a psychological evaluation, and was told that “normal people
aren’t homeless.” However, her only diagnosis was “adjustment disorder,”
due to her very real difficulty being a mom trying to adjust to the fact
that her children have been taken away from her.
She was compelled to agree
to vaccinating the girls or face charges of medical neglect. Though the
girls were previously healthy before being taken into state custody, they
have had numerous prescriptions for antibiotics and cough syrup, and were
abruptly weaned from breastfeeding. Tara is reportedly taking this very
hard and doesn’t understand why her parents have “abandoned” her.
Sage understands that his
parents have no choice in this. He has a history of febrile seizures, but his
mother learned long ago that she needed to immediately treat any fever in
Sage. If it were allowed to rise, he could go into a seizure. That is exactly
what has happened to him in state custody. During one visit, she felt that
he was very hot. She told the caretakers that they needed to check his temperature
and give him Tylenol or ibuprofen to bring down the fever. His temp was 101.5,
but they refused to treat him, saying they had to have a doctor’s order in
order to give him anything. She theoretically still retained medical
rights over her children.
They accused her of overreacting.
However, as is often the case, her mother’s intuition and knowledge of her
own child proved correct. Finally, someone took her seriously, and took him
to the ER. He started seizing in the waiting
room. He wound up spending 3 days in the hospital. Sage begged his mommy to
stay with him in the hospital and the social workers told them that she
could stay. However, just as they were getting ready to go to sleep, they
reneged, and she was forced to leave him there with strangers, in a place he
wouldn’t even be if they had just given him Tylenol.
Since the children have
been seized, the family’s RV has been
approved as acceptable, but the children are still in custody.
What Happens Next and How You Can Help
Their next hearing is on
May 18 in Imperial County. They have been able to raise some funds to hire a
private CPS attorney, Evelyn Cox, to represent
Krishna. Amber says Cox is “the highest recommended lawyer in the state of
California for cases like this.”
Amber and Krishna are hopeful,
but scared. Even though they were homeless, they have always been a very close-knit,
attachment-parenting family. Their children were always with them. The emotional
toll of the last few months has been devastating. Through all the difficulties
that Amber has faced in the past, she has remained strong. She is the one in
her circles who helps people to find the hope and the rainbows in all the
storms. Now, she is the one needing support and encouragement for her and
her family.
Governor Jerry Brown is
the governor of the state of California. He may be reached at (916) 445‑2841,
and contacted here. The Senator for the district that
Slab City is located in is Senator Ben Hueso. He may be reached at (916) 651‑4040,
and contacted here. Assembly member Eduardo Garcia represents
the district. He may be reached at (916) 319‑2056, or contacted here.
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